Intersections with four-way stop signs can be confusing. When it comes to who goes first and who has the right of way, there are many points of view of who gets to go first and how that’s decided.
Here’s the general rule on those: the first driver to arrive at the intersection has the right of way. If two or more cars arrive at the same time, the car to the driver’s right has the right of way.
Based on this standard, if you have the right of way, don’t wave or signal others to proceed through the intersection before you. That’s confusing to other drivers and could be the first step in a crash.
When you have the right of way and the intersection is clear of all traffic, go through the intersection and head on your way.
Although there are laws governing right of way, you should never “demand” your rights in these situations, putting the fact that you are “right” ahead of your own safety and the safety of others. As a matter of fact, South Carolina law really doesn’t give anyone the right of way. It states only who does not have it. A good safety rule is to slow down before entering an intersection, look carefully to avoid a collision with other vehicles and once in an intersection, move on quickly to clear the way.